I wish I could explain to people how being poly isn't a way for my wife and I to fill gaps in our relationship, but rather a way to share our love further. We love each other so so so much, and sometimes it overflows and we need aplace to put it. Our love for our partners is informed by our love for eachother. Like, it's a way for us to share our love and our relationship. It makes us both so so happy to see our partner held and at peace, meaning that they have a bigger support network, and someone else who sees how great they are.